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How to Approach Women in Public

Learning how to approach women like this in public will change your life

Ok, I’ve been getting lots of questions about how to approach women, so here’s a few quick pointers to effortlessly meet women in public.

First of all, after years of coaching guys, there are a few things that come up over and over. One is how to approach a woman. Second is how to keep a conversation with a woman going. And the third biggie is how to get things going sexually.

These first two are really pretty easy to solve, and if you can master meeting women, that same set of skills is going to work for turning things sexual.

Plus, when you get good at meeting women, you have a lot more options. So, mastering this mindset is going to do than just about anything I can think of.

Becoming used to approaching women and starting conversations with them will do more for your dating life than anything else I can think of.

And notice that I said “used to approaching women” and NOT “comfortable approaching women”. The fact is you are probably always going to be a little nervous. All of us are, the key is to simply do it in spite of your nervousness.

And yeah, I know. It used to scare the sh*t out of me too.

We just gotta do it.

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Get women to reply to your online dating email messages

online dating email examples
Quite a few of you are giving online dating a try and by far the biggest frustrations you’re sending me is that women simply don’t email you. So, I thought I’d better give you some tips on how to get women to reply to your online dating email messages.

Want to know what I think the problem is?

You’re a good guy!

The problem most guys make is that they do what a normal, nice, well-brought up guy is supposed to do. That’s just my opinion after helping 100’s of guys get women to reply to their emails.
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How to tell if a woman likes you

It's not always so obvious that a girl is interested in meeting you

When I got a question from a friend who purchased my 4 email package, it was obvious that more guys could benefit from the answer I gave him.

Here is one of the questions he asked me.

In response, we wrote a 12 page response to his question about how to tell if a woman likes you, and then covered just about everything you need to know about how to approach women. Here’s the beginning of that message…


How do you know if a girl is interested in you so you can go and start talking to her? (I am looking for hidden signs, not the obvious ones that everyone notices).

Hey Buddy,

So, you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you.  I’m not sure we should cover that right away simply because I would MUCH rather show you how you can approach ANY woman and MAKE HER ATTRACTED TO YOU.

Doesn’t picking out a girl of your choice and making her attracted to you sound a whole lot better than taking whatever the girl decides, purely on superficial things, and figuring out when she likes you?

Know what? I’ll do both. I’ll tell you when you can tell a girl is interested AND I’ll show you how to make a girl like you from the get go.

First… how to tell if a woman likes you:
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How to talk to women—a bit from JD Fuentes

There are many techniques to learn how to talk to women

This entry is gonna be pretty short, but something happened on a Skype conversation I had with a girl I’ve been seeing a bit lately. Her name is Michelle and she just turned 22. I know, I know…I’m addicted. But I thought it might help if you’re having trouble learning how to talk to women.

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How to meet people–dealing with jerks

Dealing with jerks is a given when you meet people

Today I want to talk about a problem some of us have–learning how to meet people.  A lot of you guys want to know how to do it, and how to do it well. I’m still going over my journal from the first SE Asia (Thailand/Laos/Cambodia) trip that I took, way back in November of 2007. I was in country for four years, and this was the first extensive traveling that I did while I was there.  And I know how you guys feel.  I’m an introvert at heart and have had to learn how to deal with a lot of situations that make me feel uncomfortable, and how to turn them to my advantage.

I know you want to learn tricks, or maybe better put- philosophies for how to meet people. I found some things I wrote about dealing with people who make you angry, which I though fit nicely into this category.

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How to pick up girls–some good techniques from JT

Learning how to pick up girls is essential to your success with women

There are a couple things I’d like to go over in this post. I know you want to learn how to pick up girls, and these two pointers will help. The first is some verbiage that I came up with a long time ago for asking a girl on a date. It’s been working like gold for more than 15 years, and hey—if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.

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How to pick up girls when traveling–Thailand

Leaning how to pick up girls

A lot of people have been emailing asking about how to pick up girls when traveling.

So, I want to share some of my personal pickup experiences and things I’ve learned in the field through my own trial and error about how to pick up girls.

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How to pick up girls–part two from Alpha M

Picking up girls can be a lot easier if you tidy up the details.

We talked in the last post about the importance of style when learning how to pick up girls.

I think the information that Alpha M Image Consulting provides (for free!) is so good that I had to make another post about it.

Check out a couple more videos here, and visit Aaron’s site to learn even more great tips.

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Style tips to help you pick up girls

Fixing the little things will really help you pick up girls

All dating advice breaks down to one thing–how to pick up girls. One of the key things we can do to increase our success in the how to pick up girls department is to improve our style and appearance. If you’ve been following my advice for any time now, you know that appearance isn’t one of the biggest things that girls focus on when picking sexual or relationship partners. But it sure doesn’t hurt to have all your ducks in a row in those departments.

One thing I’ve found about girls over the last 25 years that I’ve dedicated my life to them is that they notice the little things. I can see a girl every day for a week straight and never even notice that she got her hair cut on day 3. She, on the other hand, will notice immediately if I rearrange the pictures in my living room.

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Approaching women is not as tough as you want to think!

This post is continued from part one on how to approach women, click here for the first part of the article.

Don’t analyze, just gut through it and do it. It’s one of those unique situations where unfortunately what’s going to change it is doing exactly what you fear the most. It’s a simple solution, but not an easy one. You have to put your head down and plow through it.

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