Understanding women—using female psychology to your advantage
I’ve been in this game a long time. Sometimes the things I do are second nature to me and I don’t realize how important they are.
I was talking to a friend the other day about some general female psychology stuff (which, by the way, is the backbone to real “game” with women) and he stopped me dead in my tracks and wanted to know more about a certain thing I always do with my women: interview them. It’s something I do to get a deep psychological understanding of women.
Most of the time, an interview takes place before you want to purchase/hire/do anything of significance with something or someone. Well, the interview we are talking about here comes after you’ve already met.
Maybe I’m strange, but I like to know the nuts and bolts of things. I like to know why things that work. I like to know the nitty gritty. Back when I was a scrawny high school kid and started wrestling, I just couldn’t get the moves. It took hours and hours and hours and hours of monotonous repetition to get things to click, but once they did they became muscle memory and I owned them. And once I owned enough moves, I started owning my opponents.
The same happened when I took up boxing. Hours of shadow boxing and throwing jab after jab after jab into a beat-up heavy bag turned into fighting on a major cable network. I’m kind of obsessive about things.
The same applies to understanding female psychology, and it’s why I’m so good at what I do. After sleeping with a woman, I always interview her. I ask things like: what did I do to make you attracted to me? When could I have first kissed you? What did I do to turn you on? When we slept together, what was it that turned you on the most? What could I have done differently to make it better?.
You would be AMAZED at what women will tell you in that moment. A friend has a saying that I’ve adopted recently, “A closed mouth won’t get fed.” That’s the truth if I’ve ever heard it.
If you want to know what turns women on… ASK THEM. It really helps to ask ones who have been attracted enough to sleep with you. Then you’ll know the answers carry some weight.
When I was in college, I had a list of things women told me during these interviews. It’s probably not a surprise to you that I still have that list twenty years later.
When I say that I love women, and that I know that most of these “experts” don’t have a friggin’ clue what they’re talking about… there’s a reason.
Whne you use the interview process every time you sleep with a woman, understanding female psychology will become second nature to you. What you’ll find is that some of the things you thought had such a big impact on the attraction process really weren’t worth a crap. And that things you didn’t even notice held a lot more weight.
OK, be off, make love not war, and enjoy life!
And check out more posts about meeting women!!
